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BDSM Addiction Therapy-COUNSELING: Does It Work?
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BDSM is a type of role-play or lifestyle choice between two or more individuals who use their experiences of pain and power to create sexual tension, pleasure, and release. The compound acronym, BDSM, is derived from the terms bondage and discipline (B&D, B/D, or BD), dominance and submission (D&s, D/s, or Ds), sadism and masochism (S&M, S/M, or SM).
Please note I’m not here to bash BDSM…In fact…
“Recently a few voices within the mainstream sexology profession have begun not only to educate colleagues to "normalize" BDSM and fetish practices, but to also point out some of the striking sexually intelligent practices within this community - for example, the tremendous communication skills and the use of BDSM "scenes" for psychological healing”.
However, just like with anything else too much of a thing can have a detrimental effect.
BDSM Addiction appears to be closely linked to the idea of psychological gratification, in that people learn to indulge in an activity or substance to be rewarded in some way, and this in turn creates a state of dependency.
Are You Addicted to BDSM?
Many people, both psychology professionals and laymen, now feel that there should be adjustment made to include “psychological dependency” or “Process Addiction” on substance-less behavior… so that these behaviors count as 'addictions'.
You be the Judge…
Addiction is characterized by impairment in behavioral control, craving, inability to consistently abstain, and diminished recognition of significant problems with one’s behaviors and interpersonal relationships.
Process Addiction
Addiction to certain mood-altering behaviors, such as eating disorders, gambling, sexual activity, overwork, and shopping… You can think of a process addiction as compulsive behavior which is related to a process, while substance addiction requires the ingestion of a particular substance. Substance addictions have been recognized for centuries; process addiction was less widely accepted until the 20th century.
However… a process addiction is just as powerful and destructive as physical addiction.
CAN'T STOP THINKING ABOUT BDSM?
TRIED TO CUT BACK OR STOP...BUT CAN'T?
The Signs don’t lie…
Psychological dependency Cycles…Like other ‘substance’ addictions, psychological process addiction involves cycles of relapse and remission. Without treatment or engagement in recovery activities, addiction is progressive and can result in serious life and relationship issues.
IS YOUR RELATIONSHIP IN TROUBLE…?
INTIMACY?
HONESTY?
TRUST?
COMMUNICATION?
ANGER?
HONESTY?
TRUST?
COMMUNICATION?
ANGER?
Just like a substance addiction, a process addiction usually starts out small, and people who suffer from such addictions may have an illusion of self control.
Are there any Positive Addictions?
A positive addiction is a beneficial habit--where the benefits outweigh the costs…food for thought…
The Process Addiction Trademark...
Secrets and Lies…addiction can cause hurt, emotional pain, guilt, shame, fear, hopelessness, failure, rejection, anxiety, or humiliation symptoms associated with addiction, depression and anxiety.
Are you experiencing: GUILT? SHAME? ANXIETY? DEPRESSION?
Tired of making the same mistakes again and again?
Addiction is the Carrot on the Stick…
Addiction is the Carrot on the Stick…
…WHY IS THE THING YOU'RE LOOKING FOR ALWAYS IN THE LAST PLACE YOU LOOK?
BECAUSE ONCE YOU'VE FOUND IT YOU STOP LOOKING...
BECAUSE ONCE YOU'VE FOUND IT YOU STOP LOOKING...
What are you looking for…?
It’s been said,
“When you abandon yourself by judging yourself, ignoring your feelings by staying in your head, numbing your feelings through substance and process addictions, and making others responsible for your feelings and for loving you, you will feel empty”.
Does this describe you?
Whatever your concerns...Individual and Couple's Counseling is available for those in the Alternative Lifestyle, Confidential, Unbiased, Kink, BDSM, Fetish, Poly, GLBT Friendly…etc.
I hope you’ve found this info interesting!
Taz
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BDSM, Kink, and Fetishism Key Words:
BDSM, variously called bondage and discipline, dominance/submission, sadism/masochism, "leather", "kink", and "fetishism", includes a variety of so-called "nonstandard" sexual attractions and behaviors. These include attraction to body parts or objects or materials: while mainstream culture fetishizes, for example, breasts and lacy black negligee, kinky people often have similar interest in leather, rubber, or feet. Other forms of BDSM involve sexual practices that play with power dynamics between partners, unusual forms of stimulation such as "pain" (think: hickies, or biting at the height of sexual passion), constraint, or sensory deprivation, or "dark" emotions such as fear, anxiety, and anger played in a theater of eroticism. Some have called BDSM "the LSD of sex", or "sexual skydiving". Participants in this "scene" tend to have in common an adventurous attitude and a high sex drive. There is wide variety within this community: some people merely incorporate some kinky practices into a private sexual life as a couple, while others live a total BDSM lifestyle.
BDSM, variously called bondage and discipline, dominance/submission, sadism/masochism, "leather", "kink", and "fetishism", includes a variety of so-called "nonstandard" sexual attractions and behaviors. These include attraction to body parts or objects or materials: while mainstream culture fetishizes, for example, breasts and lacy black negligee, kinky people often have similar interest in leather, rubber, or feet. Other forms of BDSM involve sexual practices that play with power dynamics between partners, unusual forms of stimulation such as "pain" (think: hickies, or biting at the height of sexual passion), constraint, or sensory deprivation, or "dark" emotions such as fear, anxiety, and anger played in a theater of eroticism. Some have called BDSM "the LSD of sex", or "sexual skydiving". Participants in this "scene" tend to have in common an adventurous attitude and a high sex drive. There is wide variety within this community: some people merely incorporate some kinky practices into a private sexual life as a couple, while others live a total BDSM lifestyle.
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